He breaks up with me over the smallest things, then 3 months later we’re back together. We just split up again ’cause he says I’m smothering him and he needs his space. I really love him, what should I do to get him back?
Originally posted 2009-04-09 13:17:57.
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The person who cares the least about a relationship controls it. If he is going to break up with you over small things like that then her obviously doesn’t care for you enough. I would start caring less about him, like stop initiating call, txts things like that. Stop asking him to hang out and stuff. This will be hard to do, but it might get the relationship back in your control!
You might love him, but if you move on now, you won’t have to put up with that. I went through something like this until one day I said F*c k it. Start to move on now! It might take a little while, but it is worth it in the long run. You need a guy that gives you the time and say…trust me, when you find your soul mate, HE WILL. Hope everything works out!
Are you crazy or just stupid? Can’t you get a hint? This guy definitely doesn’t want a serious relationship with you, and nothing you say or do is gonna change that. It’s harsh, but it’s true. You can’t magically make a guy want to be your boyfriend. Especially one who’s proven to you, over and over, that he’s not ready to commit. If he comes back you in a while and makes it clear that he’s for real this time, then it’s okay to give him another chance. But don’t wait up for him. Try to focus your attention to other guys, there are so many fishes in the ocean.