Is he never going to speak to me again? How do I get him back?

by admin on February 21, 2010



I really miss my ex boyfriend. I stupidly sent him an email telling him that I missed him and still had feelings for him. He dumped me for a stupid reason. I really want to get him back. I am afraid that telling him how I felt will push him further away. How do I get him back?

Originally posted 2009-04-22 23:18:07.

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BlueEyedAngel April 24, 2009 at 7:08 pm

Unfortunately, if he dumped you and gave you a stupid reason, it’s probably because of something else. When people break up with the person they’re with, they usually tell a white lie to get out of the relationship so as to not hurt the other parties feeling as much because breaking-up is hard enough.
If he broke up with you, dwelling on a past failed relationship and dwelling on him certainly isn’t going to help you. You should enjoy single life and try to better yourself. Although you may be tempted to contact an ex-boyfriend, don’t do it. Eventually, you’ll move on and that will be water under a bridge. You’ll find the right person.

snia s April 26, 2009 at 7:46 am

you can’t… you can’t force someone to love you..sometimes men make up stupid reasons to dump someone they really weren’t interested in in the first place.they use it as an excuse to break up. if you still want someone who treated you bad then you should read some books on boosting your self esteem, and watch judge judy everyday for 6 months and read all her books ..you will see life much different after that and will know how to deal with men better and pick men better

michell718123 April 28, 2009 at 3:31 pm

Don’t. Just move on and ignore him. Act like it’s not affecting you. Laugh be with friends and hang out. The most effective way is to just act like he doesn’t even exist. Even if you bump into him just make believe he’s just another stranger entering you past and keep walking.

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